Posted by Sara Hand, Perspective Consultant On June 2, 2009
Time is the one thing that when it is gone, it is gone. No amount of wishing or praying will bring back yesterday. Each moment that goes by, is gone….into history. We each have a history, a series of moments that have passed, and we each have a future of moments to come…how many moments none of us know. We each exist in a time called the present; this is the NOW between what has gone by and what is to come.
I can’t live in the past or change one moment of it, and neither can I live in the future. Although intellectually that all makes sense, what I know in my brain may not be truth for my heart. Sometimes I am so busy scurrying towards the future I miss NOW. I miss the beauty of the Florida sun shining on Tampa Bay. So I am working and I don’t have the day off to go play in it, that doesn’t mean I cease to recognize its existence.
Or maybe the pain in my past has been so great that each day I wake with it right in front of me. The wounds still so fresh, that each person I talk to reminds me of my pain. Although time presents me with a tomorrow, I cannot see mine for the yesterday in which I live.
Great achievements come from men and women who understand living in Now. There may be pain in my past, but that is my history not my future. My future may be bright, but it is not NOW. My TIME is MY LIFE. This is it. I do not get a do over for this time around. This is not dress rehearsal. The curtain is up and the show continues whether I choose to run off the stage or not. So I will look at my history, my experience of yesterday to help me plan for tomorrow. But I will choose to be present…I will choose to live in today.
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Posted by Sara Hand, Perspective Consultant On June 2, 2009
Call it a mid-life crises, an identity crises…who cares what you call it…what do you do about it? You feel like your life is out of control! All you do is work, whether it is at your job or simply trying to keep up with the details of life. Sometimes you just want to escape, but you are too responsible to just bail.
Could there really be a healthy and safe way out?
You were in a terrible relationship. You worked up the nerve to leave, yet why do you still feel so bad?
You have the perfect family, a great job and to everyone looking in from the outside, it couldn’t be better. Why do you still feel something is missing?
Living a life of joy is really possible, and is not confined to perfect circumstances. Plenty of people have plenty of money yet money, an abundance of personal time, or even the perfect life partner doesn’t guarantee happiness.
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Posted by Sara Hand, Perspective Consultant On May 16, 2009
Truth #1
My life changes when I do.
If you would like to take your life to another level by identifying and making different choices, if you would like to be “who you are” “wherever you are”…if sometimes you feel something is holding you back and you just can’t put your finger on it, if you feel that there just might be more to your life than what there is now…your next step might be to schedule a conversation to see if this makes sense for your life.
Truth #2
The only thing I have control over are my own personal choices!
Could you be more productive? Do you feel like the circumstances of life run you? Do think you could solve your problems with more hours in a day?
“If I could only go a little faster…I might actually be able to do this.”
Truth #3
You are your greatest treasure!
Regardless of where you live, work or who you are in relationship with…wherever you go… you go. The only one investment you can truly control is your personal interest rate; what are you doing to become more valuable to yourself?
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